We all know the old favorites; “Never go to bed angry.” and  “Never leave the house without saying good-bye”. Well, now there are 60 of them! We found advice from all over the great wide web and came up with a few of our own gems on how to make your marriage rock!

For Her:

1. Hang pictures of the two of you around your house.
2. Make his favorite meal or dessert, even if it’s a little unhealthy.
3. Spend time away from him occasionally.
4. Argue fair; avoid these words “you always” and “you never”.
5. Learn to enjoy something he loves to do.
6. Surprise him with a kiss.
7. Share furniture sometimes. Sit in his lap
8. Buy him gifts he will love, not ones you like for him.
9. Wear something you know your husband loves once in awhile.
10. Kiss him when you see him after a long day; like you’re excited to be around him.
11. Watch something he likes to watch with him.
12. Tell him how attractive you think he is; it matters to men too.
13. Sleep in his t-shirts.
14. Call him right now and tell him you appreciate him!

For Him

15. Leave work on time and come home early.
16. Learn about her, her likes, her loves, her hobbies and her dreams.
17. Engage every day in meaningful conversation.
18. Listen to her stories.
19. Take at least one day a month to make your wife your total focus.
20. Kiss her every day.
21. Find tangible ways to serve your mate without complaining.
22. Forgive quickly.
23. Be honest.
24. Cook dinner for your wife.
25. Get on the same page: plan your budget together and don’t hide anything.
26. Look your best as often as you can for her.
27. Guard your marriage with your life.
28. Laugh with her.
29. Do her chores for her sometimes, especially when she needs the rest.
30. When you’re with her be ‘with her’ (take a break from phones, technology, the game, etc.).
31. Tell her she’s pretty, especially when she’s not feeling it.
32.  Bring her flowers or gifts sometimes (even when she says they are too expensive).

For Both:

33. Hide notes in secret places for each other.
34. Go to bed at the same time as often as you can.
35. Listen to music together; share ear-buds.
36. Revitalize the romance with intimate dates and keep them like you would a business meeting. Set reminders if you have to.
37. Go away together at least once a year if you can, even if it’s a stay-cation.
38. Make each other breakfast in bed.
39. Schedule a couple’s massage or host your own privately.
40. Dance together; to soft music alone or rocking music with your kids.
41. Exercise together- hikes, bike riding, join a gym, anything!
42. Choose not to be annoyed by an irritating behavior or a disappointment from your spouse. It’s hard but worth it.
43. Thank your spouse often even for the smallest reason or gesture.
44. Lay in bed together and stare into each other’s eyes without talking. Reconnect.
45. Learn something new together; take an art class, cooking lessons, etc.
46. Leave a sweet comment on each other’s Facebook wall once in a while.
47. Learn to nurture something together, whether it’s your kids, pets, or a garden. It brings you closer together.
48. Support each other’s goals.
49. Touch often.
50. Fight for your marriage; make it a priority.
51. Make a point to eat dinner together most days of the week; whether at home or at a fine resturant.
52. Never make your spouse feel like they come second place to your career, your hobbies or any other thing.
53. Talk about your dreams and aspirations. Be supportive of each other and dream big together!
54. Maintain a united front. Your motto should be: “Love is All We Need“.
55. Speak well of your spouse to others.
56. Be careful of bringing others into your marriage problems.
57. Renew your vows privately with whispers and memories.
58. Renew them publicly with cake and bubbly.

60. And last but certainly not least … Say “I Love You” every single day.